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Hello, so here’s to my first blog entry for Ivy Fallowfield. I’m going to just spend a little bit of time looking deeper into community and the early churches example of community. I take my inspiration from an amazing book which I recommend, “Influential, Women in Leadership in church, work and beyond.” Honestly boys it is not just one for the ladies, there are peals of wisdom throughout on leadership and it comes highly recommended by the one and only Mr Mike Pilivarchi J It’s written by a very wise lady called Jo Saxton, some of you have probably heard her speak at Momentum or Soul Survivor.

Before I launch into community and Oikos I just want to encourage you all and thank you for the amazing work you guys put in every week to make Ivy Fallowfield what it is. We can only do this together as a team and the time you give up the energies you put into Ivy Fallowfield mean that it is growing and developing into a movement. So thank youJ

Ok so Oikos.. what am I on about? Oikos translated means house. When we think of our house we think of those who make up our immediate family and friends. People who are very close to us, those who we know really really well. Oikos in biblical times meant a house that was open to a whole lot more. The Oikos meant a whole community living together, being a social and economic unit together. I imagine the Oikos being a hub of activity, a house that had its door open that always, if it translated to now, would have had the kettle on for the eclectic and exciting mix of people that were always welcome and who resided together.

I don’t know about you but I love this image. Within biblical times these Oikos houses were where church happened, church happened in the home. It was not about the building but about the people within it. A group of passionate and loving people who wanted to share the love of Christ with those around them. Sound familiar? As we search and try out different buildings keep in mind that a church is not about the building but about the people and the passion and love they themselves have for others.  You already know that though J

So going back to the Oikos… lets be people who develop little Oikos ( house) communities. Let’s fling our doors open and welcome those around us. Let’s do church in our homes. Many of you will do things like this already, that’s great, keep doing it. Nothing can show people the love of Christ like being a good neighbour, remember the awesome verse, “love thy neighbour as thy self?” By growing little Oikos communities all over Fallowfield and Manchester we can change our closed society.

Let’s keep creating Oikos communities within our streets and see the love of God flow out of them and watch people change.

By

Emily Bowyer

A Walled Garden

 

12 You are my private garden, my treasure, my bride, a secluded spring, a hidden fountain.

Song of Solomon 4v12

 

A couple of months ago I took a trip with my wife to Tatton Park, it’s worth a visit if you’ve not been!  There’s a beautiful walled garden there.  It got me thinking because this is a common illustration of our relationship with God, the secluded place where it’s just you and Him, a place of intimacy away from the hustle and bustle of our daily lives. 

The garden at Tatton is very beautiful and there are lots of wonderful flowers, vegetables and fruits.  There are secluded shaded seating areas by ornamental ponds, imposing statues of lions and many other old-worldly features, very romantic.  As we wandered slowly around I felt God say, ‘Your garden of intimacy with Me is just as real as this garden’.

Although we can’t see it, the garden of our hearts is real and God actually meets us there!  Like any garden it needs tending, watering, weeding etc.  As we look to grow in God, we need to sow our time and energy into getting ‘in the garden’ with God.  He wants us to be fruitful and that begins with knowing Him.  Healthy personal intimacy with God goes hand in hand with cultivating a thriving, Jesus soaked community.

Maybe have a think what ‘tending the garden of your heart’ might entail.  What weeds do we need to pull up (perhaps it’s a lie, for example, ‘God can’t really love me, I’m way too messed up’)?  Go into God’s word and use it to ‘pull up’ the lies and plant the truth.

If you’ve never experienced it try ‘soaking’ in the presence of God.  Get alone somewhere and put on some chilled out worship music.  Don’t get caught up praying or thinking too much, just invite Holy Spirit to fill you, show you stuff, touch you, speak to you – He will!

If you’re very visual God might show you pictures in your mind’s eye.  If you feel your attention wandering have a ‘hook’ back into God... maybe picture the cross or focus on a favourite verse, even a description of Heaven!  I’m more kinaesthetic (movement & touch orientated) and might imagine reaching out to take Jesus’ hand.  Another tip is to imagine your favourite place (mine tends to be a mountain!) and meeting Jesus/Father there – ask God to move on your imagination, what is He doing or saying?

Like all things it takes a bit of practice so don’t get disheartened if it doesn’t come straight away, keep going to God believing that He’s going to pour His love out on you.  You’re His precious child after all, His favourite!

Enjoy the journey and have a wonderful week!

Interested in finding out more about soaking? Check out: http://www.secretplaceministries.org/pages/journey/soaking/how-to-soak-in-prayer.html

Misty Edwards has a great song on the same ‘Garden’ theme: http://youtu.be/T-egz4wiJCg

By Dan Moynihan

Achieving Success

I'm a fairly clever guy, so I tend to assume I can accomplish whatever you set me without that much effort.
Of course, shock horror, I can't. Not first time, anyway.
 
We tend to think that successful people have talent. And they do, but not that much that they just succeed. It's stubbornness and single-mindedness that got them where they are. 12 publishers rejected Harry Potter before JK Rowling found someone to print it. Apple started trying to sell touchscreen mobile devices back in 1987 (look it up, it was called the Newton), it took until 2007 when they got it right with the iPhone. James Dyson designed 5,127 failed prototypes of his vacuum cleaner before he found a winning design.
 
You think failing three or four times is a reason to give up? Try failing 5,127 times like Dyson did.
 
The Bible's also full of people who never gave up - and those that did when they shouldn't have. Because hard work, well, it's hard. But why do you think Jesus told the parable of the persistent widow (Luke 18)?
 
If you want more on not giving up, listen to Ivy's Debra Green speaking on 'Let me run'. Link: http://itun.es/iSj7gC
 
By Ronan Stafford
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